Add some humor to your profile if you can, but avoid too much sarcasm as it easily comes across as pessimism.Rather flirt a little bit and make them want more. Remember you need to build tension – if you send a super flirtatious message to someone you’ve never interacted with before, that’s sort of coming out of the blue. you’re always alone and somewhat narcissistic taking photos of yourself all the time). In general, keep the number of selfies down as it indicates you aren’t out doing things where others can take photos of you (i.e.